There are three golden rules I usually share with people who reach out to me about FIRE.

1️⃣ Focus on Financial Independence, not just “Retire Early.”
In my view, retiring early is a myth. Our 40s and 50s are some of the most productive years of our lives, and there’s no reason why we shouldn’t use that time to grow further. FIRE was never about walking away from work—it’s about having choices.

2️⃣ Retiring early doesn’t mean quitting your job and doing nothing.
Many people think “retire early” means saying goodbye to a job and spending their time idling at home. That’s not what this is about. You have to look at it in the context of financial independence.
Being financially secure should give you the confidence to walk away from your current job and take up something that feels more meaningful to you. And yes, it’s totally okay to earn from it. Making money isn’t a bad thing—it gives you the power to do the right things.

3️⃣ Invest for the long term.
A common mistake I see is people investing in assets and then pulling them out too quickly. This creates two problems:
💠 First, you end up tracking the markets constantly and reacting to every dip, which only leads to panic. For example, my portfolio is down nearly 20% in the last two weeks—but zooming out, it’s up 28% over the past year. Quality assets need time.
💠 Second, some people keep their emergency corpus in the markets. But you never know when you might need that money. In a volatile market, the last thing you want is to sell assets when they’re deep in the red.

FIRE, for me, was never about retiring. My only reason to hit my FIRE number was to have the freedom to do the things I genuinely enjoy. That could be taking on an exciting role with a slightly lower salary or making a complete shift into a new field.

We all have a limited time here. There’s no harm in exploring ways to make the most of it.

And making money? It’s not a bad thing. It gives you the luxury to take care of your family and also to contribute meaningfully to the world around you.